The Aggregator: the Best of March

What got read. What lingered. What I liked.

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The Aggregator: the Best of March

I read a lot. A lot doesn’t stick. This is a little that did—and what people read from me this month.

Bref:
A new style of post: what’s good, what readers are read, and what I’m thinking about.

People are leaving. It’s harder than expected. Systems don’t break—they just don’t bend for you. And most of what matters happens after the move, not before.

It’s ramp season! (ramsons, bear garlic, ail d’ours) - pesto recipe in the photo.

First we eat

I really enjoy Charlie Brown’s substack. She’ll help you drink better and think better about drinking. A recipe from her:

Salad, then asparagus. The first line is a universal salad recipe she uses. Simple.

One green, one nut, one cheese, one acid-forward dressing.

I seared the asparagus in a hot pan until charred and poured over a simple lemon-olive-oil dressing. I toasted up a few sad-looking almonds from the back of the cupboard (sad no longer!), threw them on top along with some crumbled feta.

The best way to eat your greens.

My kind of recipe.

Asparagus salad days
A couple of days ago, I found the first of the homegrown asparagus in the stores. It’s always exciting when the destination of origin switches from places like Peru or Morocco to something nearer to home. The minute I saw PORTUGAL stamped on the back of the packet, I became embarrassingly joyful. Asparagus is such a seasonal treat — that seasonality bei…

What You Read from Me

The Quiet Politics of Leaving America
Not about moving. About the pressure that makes it feel necessary.

“Ooof, I feel this! We are 6 months in and it’s not easy. But still very much worth it.”

The Quiet Politics of Leaving America
Lately, almost every conversation I have with friends back in the U.S. ends up in the same place.

Nothing is Wrong. Nothing Works.
Systems that function. Days that don’t.

Nothing is Wrong. Nothing Works.
There’s a moment when you live abroad where nothing goes wrong—

News I’ve been talking about

Net migration in the US.

A recent Wall Street Journal piece compiled the data: Americans are leaving in serious numbers now, not just for politics, but for affordability, safety, healthcare, and a different rhythm of life. Which is useful context, I guess. But statistics only tell you that people are going. They don’t tell you what it feels like once you get there.

Because we need something positive

It reads less like reporting and more like a rally speech—mass protest framed as proof of momentum, urgency, and a turning political tide already underway.

Trump Doesn’t Want You To See This
Yesterday, millions of Americans walked out of their doors and into the streets. The regime wanted silence. What it got was a wall of resistance in all 50 states, in DC, and in cities across the worl…

Thinking About Leaving?

You Don’t Start Over When You Move Abroad
You don’t become someone new. You just lose the context that made you make sense.

“Very interesting read about not only the process of arriving somewhere and then being able to set yourself up and integrate.”

You Don’t Start Over When You Move Abroad
Most people think leaving is the hard part.

We Live Here Now (An Update)
After the logistics, after the story—what’s left.

We Live Here Now (An Update)
I tried publishing every day this month. Not for growth. Not for strategy. Just to see what would shake loose.

It’s weird, but I put a lot of work into it

The French Ate a Million Songbirds. But Not Lizards.
What a culture protects is sometimes a little strange. And this isn’t even the best songbird to eat, according to some. But these songbirds are rare and there seem to be lizards everywhere near me, so I worked out a recipe to make a tasty lizard.

The French Ate a Million Songbirds. But Not Lizards.
France has eaten some very strange things.

What I’ve Been Reading

Each dot is a commune. Each color, a political tendency. Posted by Victor coutard

It’s a map of France that defines a “city” not as a single place, but as overlapping layers—a built core, a surrounding catchment area, and a wider political territory—showing how urban life spills far beyond what we casually call the city itself.

Having grown up many miles away from NYC and no one ever asked which one when you said “the city,” I get it.

Music

The Ghetto Brothers and the Sound of a Bronx That Refused to Collapse

Finding joy in a place others have abandoned. History, art, culture, resistance—c’est le Bronx.

The Ghetto Brothers and the Sound of a Bronx That Refused to Collapse
In France, when something is chaotic, disorganized, or completely out of control, people sometimes say:

Archives

The Ground Beneath Your Food
You’re always living inside a system you didn’t build.

Try to notice the ones in the places you want to move to.

The Ground Beneath Your Food
You think you arrive in the present. Then you notice the layers: war, hunger, policy, chemistry, soil, your body. Nothing disappears.

If you’ve come across something lately—a piece, a book, anything that’s been sticking with you—send it along. I’m always curious what other people aren’t letting go of.

Appendix

Americans applying for residency or relocating to Europe in the last decade. We left the US in 2021.

  • France: roughly ~8,500 in 2021 → ~14,500 in 2025
    ~70% increase
  • Ireland: roughly ~3,600 in 2021 → ~9,000+ in 2025
    ~150% increase
  • Portugal: roughly ~8,500 in 2021 → ~25,000 in 2025 (est.)
    ~190% increase

Across all three, the pattern is the same: a sharp increase starting around when we left.

The US has net migration for the first time since the 1970s.

The numbers explain that people are going.
They don’t explain what happens after.

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